Perhaps one of the most vexing questions humans have ever posed themselves is: What on Earth is the meaning of life? Philosophers, scientists and maybe even someone who lives next door to you have rubbed their chins about it at one time or another, too. But what does it really mean? Is there an answer common to all, or is it deeply personal? I want to share my thoughts and experience with this question, and perhaps we can arrive at some clarity together.
What even is the Meaning of Life?
When I started to reflect on the meaning of life, I realized that I didn’t even know what the question was. Was I looking for some higher purpose? A reason for existence? Or simply a mechanism for feeling fulfilled day-to-day? The reality is, the meaning of life is not a one-size-fits-all concept. It’s malleable, changing, and fundamentally linked to your own experiences, values, and faith.
To me, it’s not about grasping one answer to the meaning of life—it’s about asking the right questions. What makes you feel alive? What brings you joy? What is the legacy you want to leave behind? Questions like these can help lead you to your own understanding.”
The Search for Purpose
I’ve always been a purpose-driven person. In the early part of my career, I thought the meaning of life was rooted in success — working up the corporate ladder, achieving milestones, gaining recognition. But after some time, I learned that external validation never bridged the gap. It was like trying to hit a moving target; the more I accomplished, the more I desired; the less content I was.
That’s when I began changing my perspective. I started holding a spotlight on relationships, experiences, and the little moments that made me happy. Comforting a friend during a tough moment, watching a sunset and just laughing at a silly joke — these were the things that felt meaningful in life.
Connection: The Heart of It All Connection: The Heart of It All
If I’ve learned one thing, however, it is that connection lies at the center of a good life. The relationships we form through family, friends, intimate partners, and even strangers provide us with a sense of belonging and purpose. Well, there was this one time I was volunteering at a local shelter. The warmth and gratitude with which I was received reminded me that life is not just about what we accomplish in life, but how we impact others.
Embracing the Journey
Here’s the deal: the meaning of life isn’t a thing you find once and keep for all time. It’s a process, not a destination. Other days, it may seem clear and profound. On other days, it may seem elusive. And that’s okay. Life is full of surprises and endless opportunities to grow, learn, and evolve.
Your Meaning Is for You to Determine
So what does this all mean for life? I can’t tell you with any certainty — no one can. But what I can tell you is this: you get to define it. Your life’s meaning is uniquely yours, whether that’s expressed via love, creativity, service, or simply by being alive in the moment.
Take a moment to reflect. What makes your heart sing? What brings you a sense of fulfillment? Start there, and see where that takes you. The meaning of life, after all, isn’t something you discover — it’s something you make.